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Here’s some positivity for systems with paracosms!
A paracosm is a detailed, often deeply complex imaginary world, usually created during childhood. For many systems, their paracosms last well into adulthood and play a key role in how their system functions! This post is for all the systems with paracosms out there!
💭 Shoutout to systems who have been developing their paracosm ever since they were very young!
💕 Shoutout to systems who are paragenic, or whose plurality stems directly from or is inherently connected with their paracosm!
💭 Shoutout to systems who love their paracosms and spend a lot of time exploring and adventuring in it!
💕 Shoutout to systems whose paracosms are maladaptive or who formed as a result of maladaptive daydreaming or some other disorder!
💭 Shoutout to systems who have always had a paracosm for as long as they can remember!
💕 Shoutout to systems whose paracosm serves as their headspace or innerworld!
💭 Shoutout to systems who are mostly made up of paratives, imagians, or other paracosm-based headmates!
💕 Shoutout to systems who developed their paracosm as a result of trauma, abuse, loneliness, isolation, bullying, or neglect!
💭 Shoutout to systems who make art, stories, or other creative works based on or inspired by their paracosms!
💕 Shoutout to systems whose paracosm was created fairly recently, or who are actively working on building and expanding their paracosm!
Paracosms can serve very important roles and functions for all sorts of people, and systems are no exception! Whether your paracosm plays a key role in your system, or is a minor aspect of your life, please know that there is nothing wrong with having a paracosm at any age!
We hope you and your system can continue to find joy in your paracosm, and can accept it as an important part of you! Remember that as long as you and your system benefit from your paracosm, then it is a good thing for your system. Your paracosm is your business alone, and other people don’t get to decide whether or not it’s healthy or harmful for you. Please continue to take care of yourselves, and have a great day!
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Can we normalize doing nothing, please?
I work with kids. These kids are at my program before and after school, and then some of them have sports/dance/music sometimes all of the above before they finally go home, eat dinner, and go to sleep. Then rinse and repeat everyday, and games and more classes on the weekend, etc.
I’m all for extracurriculars, but this turns into the teen who is not only in the school play, but they’re on the newspaper, the football team, and seven different clubs. In college they take double the courseloads, and then once they graduate…what?
They work themselves raw because they arent used to downtime. They’ve been told they can always be doing something, and they don’t know how to relax. This turns into the adult that has anxiety because there’s nothing left to clean, the adult that desperately wants to watch that TV show but can’t force themselves to sit long enough for it.
Then they turn into the moms and dads who spend all their free time ferrying their kids to extracurriculars.
Like, these kids don’t know what downtime is? I told a kid I did nothing last weekend, and he looked at me like I was crazy. He asked what I was doing this weekend and I said “Probably sleeping, mostly,” and he actually gasped. Then he rattled off a bunch of things I could do, to which I had to stop him.
“No, you don’t understand. I plan on sleeping. I’m booked.”
“But you could–”
“Nah. I’m just gonna rest.”
It was as if I had said a bad word or something. I asked what he does when he gets sick, and he says he goes to practice anyway. I asked him what he does if he doesn’t feel like going, and he said he goes anyway. I asked when he takes time to rest, and he said when he sleeps at night.
Bring back lazy Sundays. Bring back Saturday morning cartoons. Bring back the idea of relaxing and soaking in your day before moving into the next thing. Bring back the right to breathe, the right to rest.
Bring back mental health days, and taking a break. Bring back taking a walk or watching a show or setting a timer to remind yourself to stop cleaning and relax.
If you’re running at 100% all the time with no time to recharge, then your battery is going to die spectacularly, and probably at the worst possible time.
Mood
Society is trying to burn us all out. Tell society to fuck off.
Go take a fucking nap. You’ve more than earned it and you deserve it.
We HAVE to recharge. Our bodies, our minds, our everything requires it.
My dad told me when I was young that the way to take a vacation is to work on something different and I thought, and still think, that that’s the most obscene idea anyone’s ever told me to my face.
.That Judge Judy Pussy grip insane. You be calling her Judith on the second stroke.
My grip will rip your junk off, chew it up, and spit it back at you.
you either deactivate young or live long enough to see a mirror dimension version of your account kill indiscriminately on the dashboard
Imagine how I feel
this is so nostalgic. tumblr rolls out something terrible. everyone complains. it breaks several people's dashboards. for some reason it only rolls out to a few people at a time with seemingly no warning. the community collectively and immediately searches for a browser extension that undoes the change. i know we've all gotten burnt out on all social media sucking but this is genuinely The tumblr experience. everyone who hasn't gotten it already gets an achievement. welcome to the club
actually, im glad this post got notes
everybody in the notes going "but THIS TIME it's an objectively terrible choice/a bigger deal/a cash grab!!": first time in the clown car huh
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Please reblog to spread the word!!
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im part of an endogenic system— we’ve been pretending to be a traumagenic, diagnosed system for years now to be a part of the plural community online, and this blog made me feel so much better.
Oh we’re so glad!
Not glad that you’ve had to pretend to be traumagenic… but glad that our blog has helped you! :3
It’s so sad that there’s such a rift like this within the plural community. We want you to know that you NEVER have to pretend to be an origin that you’re not around us. We love endogenic systems and want to support and uplift them however we can!! >w<
We firmly believe there IS a space for endogenic systems in the plural community! Nontraumagenic systems provide unique perspectives on plural life, and y’all deserve to have your voices heard and to be understood by those around you AS YOU ARE!!! You shouldn’t have to pretend or lie in order to be cherished and accepted by others within the community! And it’s so so sad that this has been the case for your system! >_<
Granted, as a DID system, there are some aspects of endogenic plurality that are difficult for us to understand or wrap our mind around. But that doesn’t mean that we hate endogenic systems, or believe that they shouldn’t be a part of our spaces!! We are working every day to try and understand endogenic experiences, and even if we can’t understand them, we can still be supportive, kind, and uplifting!!
Anyway, thanks a bunch for reaching out!! And we wish you and your system a future chock-full of compassion, joy, and self-acceptance!! :33
💚 Ralsei and 🌸 Margo
can i talk my shit again. yall love fat people when theyre like 200 lbs and "somft" but can we get some positivity posts for people who are like 400 and having trouble getting off the floor. who have tried everything and cant drop more than 20 pounds. yes fat people are beautiful and awesome but can we talk about 4/5x more instead of just xxl. for the love of god. can we talk about those of us who cant get merch of our favorite creators bc it only goes up to 3x.
CAN WE TALK ABOUT STILL FINDING YOURSELF PRETTY AS A FAT PERSON. CAN WE TALK ABOUT BEING 375 AND CUTE AS SHIT BUT EVERYONES FUCKING PUT OFF BY YOU. CAN WE TALK ABOUT THAT. IM FUCKING. THIS IS PERSONAL TO ME
Yes. Exactly fucking this. We live in a society. Larger fat people are treated like toxic sludge despite being cute and wonderful and funny and (not even needing to be all these things I'm just saying, yanno, larger fat people are WORTHY FUCKING HUMAN BEINGS THE SAME AS THE THINS OR LESSER FATS)
“it’s weird for queer minors to be friends with queer adults” oh my god. ohhh my god.
intergenerational community support, especially in a community that is split so much age wise as the queer community, is immensely fucking important. get to know older queers and younger queers. this is how communities frazzle out and die to infighting.
the hypothetical queer adult that people are mad over in the post this is refrencing is 35 years old. only 35.
its weird for any minors to be friends with any adults, queer or not. There should be no reason why unrelated adults or minors should be making close relationships in any sense outside of professional ones. I understand wanting education, but they can be taught when they are adults as well.
is this a joke.
If you believe there is something inherently wrong with adults being friends with teens, you've been brainwashed into believing that every adult sees youth as a form solicitation.
This makes you part of the problem.
i hate how you get desensitized to the cool stuff in your WIP if you've been writing it for a long time so when you read back over it you're like "this isn't as cool as i thought :(" but it still is! you just read it too many times
Gotta recirculate this post periodically just cuz
Just don't read the post too many times.
Oh god oh fuck